What Speaks the Loudest?

What is it that you notice first when you meet someone? 

Seriously? 

This question will be answered differently by different people. Your answer will vary based on what you deem valuable. How you view the world will be based on what has been instilled in you, what you have gone through in life, what really matters.

So, what is it that you first notice? 

Well, you aren't blind, so you have to see what you see. That isn't what was asked though, right? Many people will answer that way though. They, will start describing outward appearances. The things that fade. The things that can be altered with a little make up....dressed up or dressed down. The outward appearances that do not always accurately reflect the inner essence of anyone. So, look deeper. 

Again, what is it that you first notice when you meet someone?

Well, how observant are you really? When you think about what it is that you are observing about other people and you try and strip your mind from solely focusing on their outward appearances....yeah, that requires a different level of observation. The human is a resilient being, shaped by so much in their environment, God created a magnificent thing. So, look deeper. There is an energy given off by each individual.I mean, that is what I notice. An energy that is the reflective of the core of that person. We all love a good energy don't we? Everyone doesn't emit a positive energy though. That doesn't mean there isn't a potential for such, it is what it is though. I'm sure you have been in the company of someone and things have just not felt right....the energy you both shared did not vibe. 

So, what is it that you first notice when you meet someone?

Hopefully, it is their character. It is their integrity. It is how they treat the people around them. You notice their speech...if what they say aligns with their actions. How do they make people feel and how do those people speak of them when they aren't around. What do they value? You can usually tell by what they speak of the most. What do their eyes say? It goes so much deeper. 

By the way....you may have nice eyes. I will notice your smile. How groomed you are as well...yeah, I notice that too, lol. 


Brain purging.